Sex-ed for your child?
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Ever wondered what your child is learning in health class? Things have changed since I've been there. Here's a good case for an elected school board rather than an appointed one. Unless I'm terribly naive, I can't believe this call would be the peoples' choice!
"The Montgomery County (Maryland) public school
system approved a curriculum yesterday in which
10th-graders will be shown how to put condoms on
cucumbers, and eighth-graders will learn that
homosexual couples are the newest American
family. The county school board voted 6-0 in favor of recommendations from the Citizens' Advisory Committee on Family Life and Human Development, despite opposition from parents. "
"The Montgomery County (Maryland) public school
system approved a curriculum yesterday in which
10th-graders will be shown how to put condoms on
cucumbers, and eighth-graders will learn that
homosexual couples are the newest American
family. The county school board voted 6-0 in favor of recommendations from the Citizens' Advisory Committee on Family Life and Human Development, despite opposition from parents. "
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(edit) For the sake of fairness, we don't want these 10th grade girls getting the wrong impression or false hopes, so, in addition to cucumbers, I would recommend they have a few cans of viennas on hand and some Slim Jims as well.
1. respect for teachers
2. respect for fellow classmates
3. being responsible for your actions
4. if you fail a class - you failed the class
5. "dodgeball"
6. the pledge of allegiance
and replace it with...
1. sue the school if your child gets hurt playing with a friend
2. how to put on a condom
3. metal detectors because of gun toting thugs
4. talking back and assulting teachers
5. parenting class because so many kids are pregnant
I could go on but I will spare you. I actually don't have any kids but sheesh! That is nuts! (no pun intended) x:D
Don, thanks for the laugh. You seem like a man who doesn't think an inch makes him a ruler.
We deal with lots of problem youth and quite frequently their issues stem from dysfunctional family lives.
We offer lots of parenting classes and quite a few of them are filled because of judges orders stemming from family court cases. The parents are unable or unwilling to recoginize thier responsibilities until some third party with authority requires them to do so.
Quite frequently it comes so late in their lives of problems that the dye is cast and another generation is stained with the same unfortunate choices that their parents were faced with and the cycle perpetuates. Children having children, under or uneducated and left with low-income jobs, too many bills and too many responsibilities thrust upon them by poor choices.
How do you break this cycle? Is it any wonder that we turn to the schools as a positive place to share information that may change lives for the better?
There is only one method of preventing pregnancy and STDs that is 100% effective - Abstinence. No other method or education can match it.
The truth is, untill teens and even adults accept responsibility for their own sexuality (and are comfortable with it) will they then be responsible in preventing STDs and unwanted pregnancies.
For some reason this topic has me all fired up!
Hope you all are having a great day!!
Shelley
Second, maybe the parents should set the example. It is very common for adults today to live with someone and not get married. Heck, even my 82 year old uncle is doing it. But, it is setting an example for the kids (who always assume they are more mature and smarter than their parents).
And, I haven't even started on the rich and famous who don't have to worry about the consequences because they can always hire a nanny.
Abstinence may be the ideal...but it appears not to practiced by most Americans.
What this is akin to is rather than teaching people how to manage their diet, we acquiesce and teach them how not to teeter sideways and fall down since they're so damned fat.
Happy Thanksgiving to all - even ol' Pork eatin his stuffed loin! Regardless of our individual circumstances, most of us have a great deal to be thankful for. In addition to your God, in whatever form you see him/her, thank those who love and support you. Consider calling the wife, parent etc of a soldier. Just think of the support we would show if we all made just that one call. Be safe all.
That is something to be thankful for - like mini skirts.
Judy, right on, I absolutely agree with you there. However, I also think that prospective parent's today should be given a "common sense" test. Personally, I think it is a parent's responsibility to teach children about the "birds and the bee's (showing my age there huh?) it should not be the responsibility of their teacher's or ANY school board. Unfortunately, parent's today have different priorities to my mind. Making money, keeping up with the Jones' and buying kids the latest computer games to sit in front of all day is more important. Then, (as happened to a close friend) when their kid's come home pregnant or ready to be a new Dad at 15, they blame everyone but themselves. The other kid, the school, whatever. It is sad.
Well now, have a Happy and Safe Thanksgiving forumites!xhugs
scorpio
Schools, parents, social agencies, religions - ALL teach 'self-control' and saying 'no' when it applies to drugs, alcohol, anger, gambling, overeating, violence, impulsive spending, etc. But not self-control or abstinence in sex-education, and yet it would be the very best advice. But since we all believe it would be a fruitless venture, we make a minimal effort or no effort at that concept. That's a defeatists attitude.
Condoms and all forms of birth control are given freely and confidentially - even parents are not notified. And has it curbed unwanted preganancies or STD's? Maybe putting condoms on cumcumbers is the answer after all.
Note the last sentence of the article. An advisory committee made the recommendation and parents protested.
Schools, as we all learned a long, long time ago, are not democracies. By the way, has this advisory committee ruled yet on dodgeball?
Who has responsibility for cirriculum decisions? No, Don D, who has responsibility for raising their children? Again, I do not believe it is the responsibility of the schools or the teachers. It is a parents responsibility, period.
scorpio
I don't know many of the answers, but I believe that education is one of the big keys. How can knowledge be a bad thing? Knowledge gives you power over your future - the ability to make more informed decisions, which, hopefully, means better decisions.
It is in self defense that society asks the schools to step in and provide education - public schools have already been asked to do these things with readin, ritin and rithmatic (and much more), why is it such a controversial step to go the extra mile? And by the way, I think abstinence is a great tool, but we are naive if we think all hormonally charged youth will have the discipline and will power to resist the instinctive siren call of sex.