Bereavement pay...Real or Fake
Nevada
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Our handbook states that you will receive 1 bereavement day for certain family members. What if it's questionable? This person is known to lie, take more time off than anyone else and always is the first one to use up all of her sick, vacation, personal day etc. She is always calling in sick and has one excuse after the other for not being here. The day she wanted off was the day after our Christmas Party that she attended. Also, there was no funeral to go to, she said her Grandma's memorial was going to be in a couple of months and she was so stressed and upset she needed the day off. This was her Grandma that died and she mentioned that she has 3 Grandma's and Grandpa's which means she will be taking 5 more bereavement days in the future. Who knows if it's true. How can we protect ourselves with this type of fraud?
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I would add, however, that if her attendance is so terrible why hasn't she been disciplined (written warning to suspension). If she is known to lie, why is it tolerated?
Finally,if you want to prevent "fraud", have ALL employees show up with a letter from the funeral home proving they attended the funeral or memorial service.
I also had an empoyee come tell me her father had died, that she hated him and wouldn't go to the funeral "even to spit on his grave," but she wanted the three bereavement days off anyway. We said no...no personal business, no legal duties, no funeral service, no bereavement leave. If that makes me a hard-hearted *****, then so be it.
Margaret Morford
theHRedge
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[email]mmorford@mleesmith.com[/email]
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My $0.02 worth.
DJ The Balloonman
Have a great weekend,
Dutch2
Regarding verficaiton, you should always require for any employee an obituary notice, or death certificate or some other form of documentation from a feliatable source (e.g., perhaps a letter from the local clergyman stating the death has occurred and when the memorial service will be).
Once you have those two concepts in plac3e in your police and in the minds of the emplyees it won't be so difficult to require it in specific situations knowing that a death has occurred.
In this case, I would trust people until they gave me a reason not to. If someone needs a day off bad enough to fake a relative's death, I say shame on them!
PORK, they will serve BBQ pork on the church grounds, while celebrating their loss, who has gone on to a better place last week, all most a week ago!
The obituaries, of course, do not always mention the employee, but we don't normally look into it any further.
Prior to the online membership with the paper, we had a lot of comments about "heartless HR". Now that they actually know we try first, employees are much more positive when asked to provide backup.
We look at it as a small service for our "customers."
When I mentioned to another manager who is usually tougher than I am that I wanted to tighten up the policy, even she said that you can't always tell about people's true relationships based on their spot on the family tree. For example, I had a second cousin that I was closer to than my mother!
Margaret Morford
theHRedge
615-371-8200
[email]mmorford@mleesmith.com[/email]
[url]http://www.thehredge.net[/url]
When my sister's grandmother died (not my grandmother, not a step either) I explained to my boss that I needed to be there to support my sister, not because I was feeling a loss. I don't have grandparents coming out of the woodwork, and I only needed a day, pay me or not. She appreciated my honesty and paid me for 2.